First, Heal Thyself

by Michelle Barr on April 23, 2013

SelfI see so many people showing up in my community who are being called to be Healers, Helpers, Teachers, Coaches, Spiritual Guides, and Leaders. They just don’t know how to get started, and they don’t know how to make it work for them in a sustainable way. And so they wait…

Doing this work demands a level of self-empowerment that is very aligned with the Next Wave of Consciousness we are experiencing in our world right now. It’s not about waiting for something or someone to show up. It is about creating more power in our lives by taking more responsibility.

It’s time, really time, to stand in the Truth of our Power.

My clients are amazed when they come face-to-face with their own Power in very real and tangible ways while designing the lives they want to live and then building the businesses to support and sustain them in that.

It requires a huge shift from Victim to Creator, and it’s a shift I had to make several years ago with my own Coach to get to where I am today.

The kind of self-empowerment we need to truly create a life we want to be living can be achieved through self-healing. I called my own journey Healing Your Way to Prosperity. That is what I did. Drawing on my mental health background, my Spiritual work, and my specialties in energy medicine, I created a Path of Purpose for myself that led to self-healing, that then led to self-empowerment and then to creating Sacred Success in my life.

It is very possible, and this is the part I want you to really get. This is the personal and spiritual growth and development path I took that allowed me to:

  • Move from running an expensive hobby just a few short years ago, giving my time, energy and my services away at the expense of myself, to be able to be of high service to others while living my vision, my mission, my dreams and my truth, all while creating a life I love that supports me.
  • Move from being sick with chronic ailments since childhood and an undiagnosed illness for 7 years as an adult to being pain free and medication free.
  • Move from unhealthy and toxic relationships with my husband, my children, my parents and my siblings to truly enjoying healthy, supportive and empowering relationships with all the important people in my life.
  • Move from feeling isolated and alone to building supportive and empowering communities both locally and globally.

First, I had to make a decision to take control of my life, my emotions and my own healing, and then I was able to help others do the same.

Waiting is an illusion. You can create a better life right now. That means fulfilling work, healthy relationships – including your relationship with money – stress-free environments, more connection to your Self and your Spirituality, and living in your Purpose and loving it all.

You know, I see it so often. We come into contact with our calling. We see our big dream, and start setting intentions and goals for ourselves, we begin to strive for the good things like freedom, prosperity, abundance, health, wealth, and success, and, ultimately, living an authentic life. After all that commitment and effort, we often come to a screeching halt, lose momentum, wonder if it’s worth it, and fall back into what is comfortable and safe. Because our own stuff comes up.

When we have a Big Vision for our life, we have high desire, and often we encounter high resistance. We find ourselves doing what we’ve always done, not taking new action, stuck on replay. Because our own stuff comes up.

Have you ever felt like your life is dictated by where you’ve been, toxic emotions, your stories, and negative self-talk? This can result in creating a lot of what you don’t want, along with feelings of anger, frustration, hopelessness, and powerlessness. Once you start to spin, you find yourself doing the same things over and over again. You have a lot invested in staying here, and sometimes you don’t know how to get out.

Being stuck in this place of inaction causes all kinds of dissatisfaction and unhappiness. It eventually turns to anger at yourself, negative self-talk or feelings of wanting to just give up, or even beating yourself up about it. People try to make changes for short periods of time, then they get uncomfortable, and they retreat back into what is familiar and known, even if it isn’t good for them.

Have you experienced this? Do you keep committing to your path over and over, only to get thoroughly stuck time and time again? Or, maybe you feel nudged and called toward something, but you just can’t imagine how to even get started.

It’s time to deal with your “stuff.” Take control of all of it, rather than letting it take control of you.

This is why it’s so important to gain the power you need by taking more responsibility for your own life so that you can manifest what you really want. The Next Wave of Consciousness is calling you to take 100% responsibility for your life and to take third-dimensional action to create the life you want.

It is not simply about doing some things some times. It is about filling your spiritual toolbox and developing your daily spiritual practice. It is so important to integrate these things into your daily experience in every area of your life so that it becomes not just something that you do but a way of living and a way of being. It can be spiritually rich, and it also needs to be powerfully practical.

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I developed a Self-Healing Home Study Course based on my journey of Healing Your Way to Prosperity, and I invite you to take a look at it today and see how it can support and guide you in moving forward into the work you are here to do and the life you are here to live.

Wishing You Absolute Joy In Your Journey!

Your Personal Success Coach




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